He took my parents to Laos for a whole summer to see, understand and experience our culture from their perspective and through their eyes, in order to enrich his learning process. That is when you can truly be free. Is it that shocking that our Hmong men sometimes act as they do? He dates hmong girls, tries to speak hmong all the time, joins an all hmong basketball team, and a hmong cultural group in college and eats and loves hmong food. Both sides are always wrong, whether it be the one side or the other. If history is any indication, it will statistically average out to be roughly the same to Hmong women being married to Hmong men.
I know there's a lot to consider:
dating other races or ethnicity
Yet, we are humble enough to realize social changes are needed to uplift our own. Before you judge us Hmong men too harshly, consider this: Not looking to change your mind but I challenge you to keep an open mind. Not much of it is true. As a Hmong man, I am not Chinese. I will wager that throughout history Hmong men have loved and treated their Hmong wives much better then these Caucasian men and their so-called superior culture.