Take a pause on this issue till you get married, assuming you otherwise are happy. I think for myself, it would be a dealbreaker. Besides that there is something wrong in the head of someone who lives surrounded by filth. I had examined long and hard if I was really feeling the second kind of love, not just being swept up in everything. He washes and stows laundry, cleans his bathroom and even makes a point to freshen the air. Page 1 of 7. Heck, you enjoy his company, too.
Why is the clean home so important to you?
'My Boyfriend's House Is So Messy That I Can't Handle It'
What should you never do? Dallas TX 14, posts, read 20, times Reputation: If you're seriously seeing one another, then marriage or living together is probably next, and I don't wanna live with someone I would have to clean up after, and had no sense of clean. Davis sat there a little longer, continuing to watch the movie, until he just couldn't take the smell anymore. And 70 percent of men and 82 percent of women agreed that a messy apartment was the biggest turnoff. I chalked it up to being a bachelor. I don't even want to pick up after someone who is untidy, but at least the untidy person isn't usually mentally ill; or at least not mentally ill in a way that shows up as filth.